The pair started out as friends after meeting in December 2023.
Nat Wolff and Billie Eilish at the ‘Billie Eilish – Hit Me Hard And Soft: The Tour (Live in 3D)’ Los Angeles Premiere held at Village Theatre on May 6, 2026.
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Billie Eilish looks happier than ever with Nat Wolff, with whom the pop star stepped out on the red carpet for the first time at the Los Angeles premiere of her Hit Me Hard and Soft: The Tour film on May 6, 2026.
Leading up to their inaugural couple’s outing at the screening, though, Eilish and the Paper Towns actor spent more than two years in each other’s orbits, reportedly starting out as friends before things eventually turned romantic at some point. Before cameras first caught them kissing, they often hung out together in a friend group that also consists of Nat’s younger brother and former Naked Brother’s Band costar, Alex. Both Wolff siblings — who still make music together as a duo — eventually joined the multi-time Grammy winner on tour as her openers.
In the past, Eilish dated actor Matthew Tyler Vorce as well as Jesse Rutherford of 2010s alt-rock hitmakers The Neighbourhood, both of whom she’s had only kind things to say about since their respective breakups. And Nat was linked at different times to TV and film actress Margaret Qualley — now married to Jack Antonoff — and Tell Me Lies star Grace Van Patten.
But what’s past is past, and right now, Eilish and Nat are each other’s present and future. As their relationship continues to unfold, Billboard is keeping track of all of their biggest moments, from the night they first met to their award show date nights and more.
Keep reading to see a timeline of the couple’s relationship below.
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Dec. 3, 2023: First Meeting
Image Credit: Michael Buckner/Variety Nat and Eilish first crossed paths at the 2023 Academy Museum Gala in Los Angeles, according to the musician’s Vogue cover story in October the following year.
Alex Wolff has also shared his experience meeting Eilish at an Oscars party many months before she ever met his older brother. “Billie and me and my brother, we all have Tourette’s,” the Hereditary star told Variety in 2024. “And I think we all have bonded over that. Even when I saw Billie on interviews, I said, ‘Oh, she’s one of us.’ We know all the ways that we try to mute ourselves or try and chill ourselves out or soften ourselves for other people, and how nice it is to not have to do that for certain people.”
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April 20, 2024: Coachella Cuties
Eilish and the Wolff brothers went to Coachella 2024 together, after which Nat and Alex shared photos of their group hanging out together in the desert on Instagram. In one snap, Eilish — who at one point that weekend made a surprise cameo during Lana Del Rey’s headlining set — lies across Nat’s lap, and in another, she sits on his shoulders.
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June 6, 2024: ‘Chihiro’ Costars
Image Credit: Interscope Records/YouTube The pair proved they also have chemistry on screen by costarring in Eilish’s “Chihiro” music video, which ends with Nat chasing her down and tackling her in a grassy field.
“not a better crew out there than the people who worked on this video with me,” she later wrote on Instagram, sharing photos of herself and the Stuck in Love actor on set. “love you guys, :’) thank you.”
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Sept. 29, 2024: Hitting the Road Together
When it came time to tour in support of her Billboard 200 No. 2 album Hit Me Hard and Soft, Eilish tapped two of the people she’s closest with to open for her. Nat and Alex Wolff supported the trek intermittently throughout its run, including on the very first leg of shows that kicked off on Sept. 29, 2024.
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Oct. 8, 2024: Nat Gushes Over Billie
Also in Eilish’s Vogue cover story in 2024, Nat couldn’t help but rave about her. “She’s one of those people where almost everything she does, she does better than everyone else,” he told the publication at the time. “She’s like, ‘Come see me ride my horse,’ and the teacher says, ‘You know, if she put all her energy into it, she could go to the Olympics.’ You just have to kind of submit to the fact that she’s going to be better than everyone else at everything.”
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March 17, 2025: Award Show Exit
Photos shared by DeuxMoi on Instagram showed that Nat and Eilish left the iHeartRadio Music Video Awards together in Los Angeles, with the actor riding along in the passenger seat of the musician’s car as she drove.
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June 7, 2025: Kissing in Italia
Though fans had already been speculating for more than a year at this point that Nat and Eilish were an item, their relationship became undeniable after photos surfaced of them kissing each other in Italy.
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Feb. 1, 2026: Grammy Date
Image Credit: Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for The Recording Academy Nat accompanied Eilish to the 2026 Grammys, where she and brother Finneas ended up winning song of the year for “Wildflower.” The siblings and their respective significant others — Finneas is engaged to influencer Claudia Sulewski — all shared a table at the ceremony at Crypto.com Arena in L.A.
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May 6, 2026: Red Carpet Debut
Image Credit: Gilbert Flores/Variety At the premiere of her Hit Me Hard and Soft concert film, Eilish had support from both her family and her significant other. Marking their first time appearing on a red carpet together, Nat and the singer posed for adorable photos together as a couple as well as snapped pics with Eilish’s brother, future sister-in-law and parents Maggie Baird and Patrick O’Connell.
